Does it reduce you to tears? ect, ect – please just tell me generally what your experience with this are like.
I have this (i’ve been diagonised), but i just wondered what other peoples’ experiences with this are like.
thanks
The problem is .. people don’t understand it , they think that it’s nothing but shyness , I noticed that all people who suffer from it are good , kind , and intelligent people ..!!
I probably have it. I don’t know what you want to know, so if you ask some questions, i’ll try and answer them for you.
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I was diagnosed with social anxiety when I was 17. When I’m talking to people I don’t know in a social setting, I can’t respond to any statements they make with anything other than "Oh really?" or "Yeah" or just an idiotic nervous laughter, because my mind literally can’t process anything to say, no matter how hard I try to think of more in-depth responses. I know I don’t have it to the extent that others do, but it’s horrible.
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I used to be so bad I literally could not go to school or leave the house and if we went to the shops i would be reduced to tears. Luckily it has gotten better and I am in all classes and find it easier to meet new people.
I was shown some cool techniques to calm my fight or flight response and therefore I could remain calm cool and collected in a situation that usually made me uncomfortable.
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ME =D
I have it and it’s like being in a haunted house. The reason i say that is because it gets really scary for no reason. Not a reason i can yet explain right now anyways, but there is a big reason behind people’s social anxiety…… There are many reason’s people have anxiety but it’s the person that has to dig deep and find out why. It’s like your always hiding and your always scared of interacting, showing people the real you is really hard. I’m in Rochester,NY with a guy that’s helping me right now and i had an anxiety brake down just the other day. He invited some people over and i hid from the conversation’s they were having and cried. I cried because the fear of not being myself around them is really really hard to deal with……………. When parent’s raise they’re children they need to keep a good eye on them as much as possible. Everything children, teens ect. go threw need to be watched closely. I didn’t have that as much as i should have when i was younger :/…… Yeah its a pain in the butt when parents say get in at 7pm sharp but that stuff parents do is only good for the long run. I guess some people can have anxiety that comes natural but usually i think it some come from the way your treated when you grow up.
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i’m sorry to hear you’ve been diagnosed with this cos it’s cr@p to live with – it means you can’t move on with your life, get a better job etc (if it means presentations etc) . Please try and sort this out if you are young cos it will make so much difference to your life if you can deal with it. X
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have just read the answer below me and was almost reduced to tears – life is a bi@tch sometimes ain’t it?
I guess it would be the kind of fear a healthy minded person would feel if someone was holding a gun to their head. I was diagnosed with social phobia in 1985 and it affected every part of my life. The worst for me is when I am at a resturant and the waitress asks for my order. I just can’t speak in a voice loud enough to be heard and someone in my party usually tells them I am shy, which makes me feel like more of a dysfunctional reject. The feeling I get when someone looks at me is like walking on glass. All though school– grade 1 through college– I never had friends really. Ate lunch by myself at lunch time and just wandered the campus to avoid sitting in one place where people would notice me. Can’t make eye contact with people. I played the drums for 18 years, 7 years of study with a professional drummer…by myself I can hang with the best of them but if someone is watching I just get clumsy and uncoordinated…so I never played in a band. Not even once. I am in my 30’s and I have had three girlfriends in my entire life. One little thing they did to make me feel inferior and I broke up with them..all three. Most of the jobs I have had were given to me through connections, because I can’t speak for myself. I literally have no friends, no girlfriend or anything. I just spend my days reading and watching tv. I have tried to take meds and get therapy with so many counselors and psychologists, but nothing ever took. I am now content with the understanding that the social and love life I spent most of my life craving for is just not for me. The end.
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The problem is .. people don’t understand it , they think that it’s nothing but shyness , I noticed that all people who suffer from it are good , kind , and intelligent people ..!!
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hypnotherapy , spiirual healing and reiki can help with all of this easily
and make sure you have this in your life
This is the tool The value of giving Putting something or some service into society is one of the most transforming tools with which we all benefit . The value of it is much higher than we can possibly know and it should be included as part of everyone’s health program. The giver may ask how will helping others help my health and me! That is a very good question, which is very worthy of a serious amount of thought. This touches on the concept which is called karma .
For if one truly wants to live with the great allies of Health, wealth, happiness, Love and all those effects which one values one should really understand this concept. It is the only thing, which explains the apparent randomness of the effects, which come upon people.
Effects are all aspects of health, Wealth, Richness, [note these two are separate] Happiness etc.What is karma? Put simply it is the law of cause and effect. Or put as another way as you sow so shall you reap, or what goes around comes around. What do we mean by sowing? Simply every action or deed you do causes an effect and every thought causes an effect.
So if you have sown good deeds as in helping others, being of service, giving love and Kindness for lengthy periods of time you can expect to reap those seeds. Alternatively if we have sown other deeds and thoughts of a hurtful nature we can expect problems of one nature or another to beset us. Edgar Cayce frequently mentioned in treating disease that we were working against karma and frequently told people that they would get well faster by helping others.
Ah you may say why is it that babies are sometimes born with so many impediments; they have not sown wrongful acts.Yes they have not in this lifetime but what about their previous lives as in reincarnation. You may not wish to go into this subject at this time but there are millions of references to it, some in the bible and a lot of eastern religions, some people can actually remember their past lives.
There is now even past life regression therapy used in hypnosis to treat phobias, which are not connected with this lifetime.
now listen to this next concept really carefully
If we are unwell and by implication therefore suffering from past seeds sown it follows therefore one of the fastest ways to get well is to incorporate into your treatment plan service or giving to somebody as often as you can .
Ask for opportunities to be of service .I have proved this concept on a daily basis and feel that this concept is so important in all types of healing and to achieve other effects like having friends ,enriching experiences, money and other effect which we all need.
Just a few examples of how we can be of service –giving Sharing our being, our wealth, sending our thoughts, giving to charity, sharing a joke, uplifting someone, giving listening time, giving healing, giving labour, giving love, giving entertainment, giving food, giving information and a million more ways.
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.Virtually every effect you can name .
All is seen ,all is heard, all is felt.
The wise among you will take the attitude of discovering the areas of service you have to make amends on before effects of ill health reach you whether it be cancer, Parkinson’s blindness or what have you.
So I strongly advise that you engage in some kind of voluntary work and I believe that virtually everyone should be engaged in some kind of healing practice for others preferably on a daily basis.
how to discover this?Well I suggest you pray to be shown or ask the universe to reveal it to you. reveal the areas which are most suited to serviceJust going along in your life and living for self and not bothering until problems come can be very painful.
It is almost like asking for trouble to come ,.all our healing yours mine is linked right alongside our efforts and contribution to others.in direct proportion to the help we give others ie your healing comes with helping others acheive theirs so if people are doing very little in helping others —they suffer more and longer…and if they are doing a lot they get well faster….so now you know what to do ,,and like a lot of us are already doing being of service. Do not even dream of healing to come to you if you are engaged in wrongful acts , wrongful words , wrongful thoughts. It seems god –law will not be mocked
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